Confusability

Loneliness and Technology

(picture from Twitter: The Good, The Bad and The Ugly)

(from Is Twitter TOO good?)

The biggest benefit most people seem to be deriving from Twitter is the ability to feel more connected to others. Carson Systems' Lisa put it this way in a comment to Tara Hunt's defense of Twitter:
"Twittering fills in those gaps...recording our friends’ feelings, geographic location and actions as if we were spookily almost there. That makes us feel *really* connected..."

Is this really a good thing?

Probably, yes. For most people, perhaps. But I think it's worth a critical look as opposed to an automatic connected-is-awlays-implicitly-good response. UCSF neurobiologist Thomas Lewis claims that if we're not careful, we can trick a part of our brain into thinking that we're having a real social interaction--something crucial and ancient for human survival--when we actually aren't. This leads to a stressful (but subconscious) cognitive dissonance, where we're getting some of what the brain thinks it needs, but not enough to fill that whatever-ineffable-thing-is-scientists-still-haven't-completely-nailed-but-might-be-smell. He didn't make this claim about Twitter... I attended his talk at The Conference on World Affairs, and he was addressing e-mail, chat, and even television (brain recognizes it's looking at "people", and feels it must be having a social connection (GOOD), but yet it knows something's missing (BAD).

(from Adbusters, February 2007)

Forty year old Joyce Vincent had been lying dead in her London apartment for two straight years before the badly decomposed body was discovered by her landlord in April 2006. The story, quietly tucked away in British newspapers, profoundly upset readers around the world who saw her isolation as a failing of modern communities. As one outraged blogger put it, “Two years. She lay there. Alone, dead, unnoticed, and unmissed. How is it possible that in a city of about seven million, not one person noticed that a neighbor, sister, cousin or friend was missing?”

If you're not online, does anybody know you exist?

egoSurf has arrived

Jason has been busy over Christmas.

egoSurf is born. Look what a few idle hours over Christmas can do. A total of 9 hours R&D, design, and coding… we’re here.

egoSurf helps massage web publishers ego, and thereby maintain the cool equilibrium of the net itself.

We, the publishers of this here internet thing, need the occasional massage. We aren’t paid. We aren’t recognised. Our sites hit count used to be enough to massage our egos, but no longer. We need to be no 1. In Google.

There is an egoSurf blog, a FAQ and the egoSurf application itself.

My egoSurf stats are 5265 points on google, 3862 on yahoo and 3821 on msn.

Go on, search for yourself, you know you want to.